I went to my first high school football game last night. My twins and I went to the Gardner Edgerton vs. Blue Valley West football game.
Catch that: It was my first high school football game ever. Yep, ever.
Here comes the understatement: I hated my high school experience. It was just…awful and painful. I wasn’t popular, I wasn’t a jock, I wasn’t a brain, I wasn’t part of the drama club or chorus, I wasn’t an AV nerd, I wasn’t in the chess club. I wasn’t in to art, cars, pep, hemp, computers, yearbook, newsletter, video games, math, meth, smokes, goth, debate, (deep breath), shop, science, government, cheer, beer, steer (ha, cowboy), dance, history…or anything else high school-related. I never supported my high school’s sport teams. Go Cougars, yeah, whatever.
What was I into? I was into God. A church geek, a Bible thumper, a Jesus freak, a righteous rocker, a religious retard. OK, maybe that last one was overstating it a bit. Although it wasn’t a clique, it was still a persecuted and discriminated group (of one?) to be in. I was alienated and ostracized. I admit I brought some of it on myself. I didn’t have a lot of friends in high school, but I did have a few close buddies.
My high-school years weren’t all bad, like I said, I was a church geek. When I was at church with my youth-group friends life was perfect. Our youth group was full of kids, it usually had 30 to 50 teens from several different high schools! I had friends who looked up to me, friends who loved me and took care of me, friends who helped me grow up, friends who are still the best people in my life. And leaders that cared about many different aspects of my life. At church I was popular. At church I was a drama and chorus geek! That’s right, I sang and acted-at church! Heck, I even skateboarded, that counts as a sport right?
My high school years are far, far behind me, but my twins’ high school years have just begun. Four fresh years ahead. I was very impressed with the “meet the teachers’ night” message and presentations. There are so many opportunities for students to be successful and prepare for life and college. And I really want my twins to have better opportunities than me. A college education without college loans would be a great start. In addition, an education that develops marketable skills that keep their interest that allow them to give their family better opportunities would be…well, perfect.
Christ is still a most important part of our lives. We are attending a different Nazarene church that has a thriving youth group. The twins are making friends, volunteering and hopefully developing a relationship with Christ.
We thought that high school football games would be something we could do together.
My first-ever high school football game was everything I expected it to be, lots of loud rivalry, colorful team spirit, disrespectful kids and, foul-mouthed adults. I felt incredibly out of place. But the twins got to hang out and make new friends and fit in.
The #8 Jags fell to the #2 Trailblazers 49-7.